This is how this works...
Nothing posts like memes and random crap are unlocked. Every so often I post an unlocked writing progress report. Anything personal is locked. You have to comment to be added to my friends list at all. You do not comment, I do not add you. It is unessessary to comment to this post asking me to keep you. Unless I have made a flist cut, you're still here if you were before. I always announce those cuts. If you aren't sure, please check first before asking me to add you.
I also use filters. The more personal the post, the higher the filter. If I don't know anything about you, you are not on some of the filters. You start commenting and I get to know you - you get added to the filters. It's a trust thing.
If you are just here for my writing, I do not post any of that here. Join echolibre or for my Shadowside series u_of_trans.
If you only want snippets of less than serious stuff, follow me on twitter. I'm spankerella there. You can also listen to me talk on a weekly podcast about geek culture. We're on facebook as Pledging Geek and on iTunes under the same thing. The podcast is a free download.
If all of this is too much, then take me off your flist. No harm, no foul.